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Weddings, Baptisms and Funerals

Life Events

Bitterne Park would like to help you mark important events in your life, like weddings, funerals and baptisms.

To find out more, please contact the following people:

BAPTISM ENQUIRIES -  To the Vicar: This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it

WEDDING ENQUIRIES – Mrs. Frances Samphire  c/o This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it

OTHER ENQUIRIES  - To the churchwardens: This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it

 

 

 

Weddings

Please contact Frances Samphire at the Parish Office to find out about having a wedding in our church.

Special features of the Church of the Ascension include the modern worship space, the stunning stained glass windows, nationally renowned bells and ringers, and local flower arrangers at very reasonable costs.

 

 

 

You will find a lot of helpful general information about having a Church of England Wedding on a special website (http://www.yourchurchwedding.org/) .

You can also hire our hall and cafe for your reception.

 

Funerals

We will take funeral services for residents of the parish, either in one of our church buildings or a local crematorium or cemetery. You will need to tell the funeral director that you want a Church of England funeral as they may otherwise ask another minister. If relatives are local we would normally visit them at home to plan the service. We also like to pray for the friends and family in our Sunday and daily services.

We have a Garden of Remembrance in the Parish, very close to the Church of the Ascension, where a person’s ashes can be interred. You can read more about the Garden here. We also have a Book of Remembrance in the Ascension Church.

Every year we have special services at the Ascension Church to allow people to remember their loved ones who have died. One service is held in June in the Ascension Church and Garden of Remembrance. The All Souls service is held at the Ascension in early November.

 

Baptisms

We welcome both adults and children for baptism (the baptism of children is sometimes called ‘Christening’).
People are baptised when they decide to follow Jesus Christ and live their lives his way. It is a way of publicly showing this new way of life. It is impossible for very young children to be able to do this for themselves. Therefore when children are baptized, parents are stating publicly that this is their faith and that they wish to bring their child up as Christians too. We say more about this below.

What is Baptism?


The baptism service for children asks parents and God-parents to make a public declaration of their own faith. It also asks them to make a promise to:

Pray for their child
Be an example to them in living the Christian life
Bring them into the life of the church
Care for them within the life of the church as they grow up.

During the service your child will be:

Signed with the sign of the cross on their forehead – the universal sign of Jesus Christ
Baptised with water in the name of God, the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit – to symbolise dying to sin and being raised to life with Christ
Given a lighted candle – a symbol of the light of Christ

What is Thanksgiving?
A Thanksgiving service provides families with the opportunity to celebrate the birth of a child, to name him/her, and ask God’s blessing on him/her. It is an honest alternative for people who want to thank God for the birth of their child, pray God’s blessing on them but who are not in a place to take on the commitments that baptism requires.

If you wish you can choose to have some significant adults called ‘sponsors’ or ‘supporting friends’ who take part in the service. Technically they are not called godparents but they can be a special support to you and your child. Just as in a baptism service your child’s name will be publicly declared and acknowledged. We pray by name that God would bless your child.

Can my child be baptised later on?
Of course! We hope that at a later date you will be able to make the promises asked of you in baptism, and then your child can be baptised. Alternatively your child may decide to get baptised themselves.

What do I do now?

We are here to help you in making a decision that is best for you. We hope however that you will think carefully and honestly so that you come to the right decision for you. Once you have come to a decision we will make a date for a service. We cannot promise to be able to do the precise date you would like but we will try and meet the needs of your families and other considerations. We usually conduct baptism and thanksgivings on Sundays. You may choose to have your service as part of the main service at either church or as a separate service at 12.45 pm.